Wonderful Books to Read

A New Book ~ English Etiquette

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I love a good etiquette book. Especially one that teaches common decency, grace and excellent lifestyle choices. Most of you know and I mentioned this on my Youtube channel on Sunday that Jennifer L. Scott posted on her Instagram account a book called English Etiquette: The Motivation Behind Manners


Of course, I went onto Amazon to find it and looked at the “preview” for it. The chapters for it looked amazing! The book is divided up into different sections. The first chapters are about Why Etiquette Matters, followed by Common Decency in One’s Own Castle, there is also a section called Gallantry and Grace, and so on and so on. It looks absolutely intriguing. 

Then I begin to search a little further and noticed that there was a second book by the same company, The Darling Academy, called Ladies Like Us. This book is about giving gentle guidance on what it really means to be a lady. They also discuss true grace, quiet confidence and surrounding yourself with everyday happiness. 

I think I may need to order both! I then went to the Darling Academy’s website and was blown away at how beautifully done it was! 
Tyntesfield Gibbs National Trust

You must visit the website. There are lots of articles on etiquette and English living. I will be taking a look tomorrow during my lunch break. I am sure that it will be a website that you will enjoy! Also if any of you already have these books let me know your thoughts please! I would love to hear them. 


Thanks for reading!!! 













(photos via Pinterest and The Darling Acadmey.com)

Another Beautiful Book ~ French Country Cottage

Good Monday Morning all! It’s a week before my kids’s spring break and honestly, I am looking forward to it! It will be nice taking a break from the “school schedule”. In two weeks I will be leaving for Washington again for another work related trip. I like going out of town but then again I don’t. It’s nice to take a break from cooking dinners and home life. But then again I do miss my bed, candles, home pretties and routine. Anyway, enough nagging. I wanted to share this beautiful book that I will taking with me and reading during our 10-hour road trip.

I am sure that most of you have heard of this book called French Country Cottage by Courtney Allison. It is a beautiful book and I follow her Instagram account and it is such a wonderful treat to see all of her beautiful pictures. 
She goes into details about her cottage. She talks about her love of romantic vintage and how each piece tells a story. Each trinket is fueled by passion, inspirations and what you love. 
I adore this bed. I would love to have something like this. She said that it was a reproduction and is covered in carvings, gilding, and worn paint. The bed has stacks of linens on it. I wonder if they are french linens. Read my post here about that. 
This page is about her attic. Did you hear me? Her attic! It looks like this! Incredible!! I love what she has done with the space. She has this antique chair and these beautiful vintage sconces. She says, “The attic is a place for play and for retreat. A place for daydreaming with a cup of tea. Our attic is a little bit of a childhood dream spot in our home.” 

Just lovely….
And lastly, this is her kitchen island. It is lit up by double chandeliers. They illuminate the room while adding vintage elegance. This is one of my dreams. To have double chandeliers. I would love it.
This book is quite big and there are so many more pages to share. I hope that you can pick up a copy to look at. I know that I will certainly enjoy reading this while on the road. It will be a retreat on it’s own. 
Enjoy!

(photos via Mrs. Shockley)

In France with Sharon Santoni

I know most of us follow the British author Sharon Santoni and her beautiful blog My French Country Home. She currently just finished her states book tour and sadly she did not come to Indianapolis. It always makes me sad when an author that I enjoy never comes here.

I know it’s not intentional. I just wish that one day our state could be added to their list. But oh well moving on. I have both of her books and have read them over and over. I have talked about her numerous times on the blog.

I recently picked up a copy of Victoria magazine and saw an article in it about her.

Her property is so inviting and inspiring. I always wanted to make sure that my home was a place that you would desire to be at. My mother-in-law’s home has that feeling. That feeling of “home elegance” is what I call it. Where the meals are good, the decor is beautiful, and the company is valuable. 
I love how she lives and how she encourages you to be more engaged with family and friends. I am trying to make that a goal. I want to establish relationships with substance. 
One day in the near future I hope to be able to purchase one of her Stylish French Boxes. It is a box full of carefully curated European finds adopted from her land’s customs. The theme for the next box which is in August is the “French kitchen”. What a wonderful opportunity that will be to obtain some wonderful authentic Parisian pieces for your home. 
I remember one of my readers calling Sharon a “muse”. A muse is defined as a person who is a source for inspiration. I could not agree more. If you wish to read the original article and see more photos you may view it here. I hope that you enjoyed this post and have a great 4th of July!!!!
(photos via Victoria magazine)

Treating People Well ~ Power of Charm

Sorry for the delay. I was having computer problems on Monday but let’s continue….

A few weeks ago I read on a fellow bloggers website about a book called Treating People Well. I have been reading it for a few weeks now and I must say that it is an excellent book! You guys know that I love to share what I am currently reading and if there are any good pointers from the book then I will share it.

This book was written by Lea Berman and Jeremy Bernard. Both were social secretaries for the White House. Lea was the social secretary to the Bush Administration and Jeremy worked for the Obama Administration. It think that it is excellent that two people from different political backgrounds teamed up and shared their experience in working with dignitaries.

I wanted to share their section on the “Power of Charm”.

In the “Ease your Way in” section, Jeremy mentioned, “When you enter a crowded room, don’t walk up to people who appear to be engaged in an earnest conversation. Instead, look for a loose group of people who seem to be chatting casually. Make eye contact with one of them and extend your hand. (I’ve done this several times). Then say, “Hello, my name is…..”If it’s a more casual setting, like a barbecue, you can go with “Hi, I’m….” Then shake hands with others in the group, and enter the flow of the conversation. If you caught a little of what they were discussing when you walked up, that’s the best place to start: “Were you just talking about the last speaker? So powerful, didn’t you think? Or offer some tidbit of information about yourself, preferably with some humor, such as, “I’m Tom’s favorite brother. Okay, his only brother”.

One more tip that I wanted to share was the “Keep it Courteous“, steer away from topics that might make your dinner partner uncomfortable. If he mentions that his mother passed away recently, say you’re sorry for his loss and then change the subject. If someone says something politically charged that you disagree with, you can simply say, “I don’t agree” or “That’s not how I see it.” Again, change the subject. If the other person persists, say “I don’t think you’re going to sway any minds today! Maybe we should talk about something else.” 
I thought that these were some wonderful tips and were more but I didn’t want to spoil the book. The book is PACKED of ideas and helpful information on how to deal with people. I work in a political office so this book has me heading in the right direction. I hope you are able to pick up a copy of your own. Enjoy!!!!
(photos via Pinterest)

My French Country Home ~ A New Book

Sharing new books with people is a great way to communicate and share beauty. I could not wait until my copy of this book arrived. I knew that it was going to be special.

My copy at home
My French Country Home is such a reading and visual treat! I loved how Sharon discussed in the beginning chapters how she was purchasing her chateau in Normandy. She said that French real estate agents do not share information easily. She had to fax and write letters to all the local realtors and notaries but none of them got back to her!  WOW, I did not know that it would be that hard to house hunt in France. 

Makes me a little nervous as an American….

Cherry Clafoutis
I don’t want to tell the rest of the story but it is a wonderful read and a real eye opener for someone like me from the states who wants to buy a chateau someday. It won’t stop me but I now know that I must be patient. 

Rose Petal Jelly
The recipes look scrumptious and easy. I also enjoyed looking at all of the vintage china that Sharon picked up at the local brocante fairs. That is something that I would LOVE to do! Attend a brocante fair in the countryside of France. 
Pages from the book, lovely aren’t they? 

And here is a lovely photo of Sharon Santoni. I have enjoyed her two books and I love her blog. I am always excited when she posts real estate property for sale. Especially, when it is a chateau. Oh my heart just sings. I would love to see one in person. 
I do hope that you check out Sharon’s book. I know for me when I read it; it takes me away for awhile. Into the countryside walking around the cherry blossom and magnolia trees. It is truly elegant. I also wrote about her first book here. It is very inspiring also. 
(photos via My French Country Home)

The Residence ~Inside the Private World of The White House

I always like to share books that I am reading. I also like to hear what everyone else is reading. When you find out what someone is reading it exposes their mind, will and emotions at that time. It some what explains where they are. For me I am have been so curious about the White House.

Ever since our visit last year (see here and here if you missed it) I have been wanting to see the inside of the historical home. I must admit I didn’t know much about the home but now that I am getting older I am very curious about how it runs and who works there.

The book that I am reading is called The Residence ~ Inside the Private World of The White House. My husband and I spotted it in Barnes & Noble a few months ago. I opened it and began to read about Hillary Clinton. I was astonished and surprised about what I read. I just began the first chapter. The introduction was pretty long itself.

They talked about some of the presidents, JKF, Obama, Bush, etc. I found it very interesting to read from some of the staff that the Bushes were very personable and friendly and how there was a “separation” between the Obama’s and the staff. Some of the staff said that they could “feel” it. It wasn’t that the Obama’s were rude. They were just very private people even in The White House.

My copy at home
Another story that I found interesting was how Hillary Clinton would move items and furniture between all the floors and would not tell the curators where she moved things. So it would take them months to find items that she moved. She would move lamps at 2 a.m. in the morning! 

I like to use postcards as bookmarks. I picked these up at the Library of Congress this past June. See here if you missed that post. 
As I stated before, I just began the first chapter and I am sure that I will learn much more about The White House. I look forward to reading about all stories, the home and the staff. 

(photos via Mrs. Shockley)

A Paris All Your Own ~ Part 2

This past September I discussed a new book called A Paris All Your Own and I shared a few snippets from the book that were my favorites. I ended that post by saying that I would come back with the last few stories to discuss those as well.

Well I have finished the book and as promised I will discuss a few of the stories that I enjoyed. The next story that I read and found it quite interesting was called “My Paris Dreams” by M.J. Rose. Her story had a bit more romance in it than the others.

She talked about her first visit there. “I was fourteen the first time I visited Paris, staying with my parents at the Ritz hotel in Place Vendome. In the bathroom, water poured from the mouths of gold swan faucets. On the bed was a duvet filled with down feathers, softer and far more luxurious than my wool blanket at home”. 

She went on to discuss her imaginary love affair with the elevator boy….. “why walk when you could glide up and down in an old -fashioned gilded cage, an elevator complete with a white-gloved attendant? And especially when that attendant was young and, to me, exceptionally attractive…… I can picture him still, all these years later. He was tall and gangly, with fair skin and black hair. And he had a mole high on his left cheekbone……When we stepped into the elevator, and during the ride down, he always stared straight ahead. Never spoke. Never made eye contact with any of us…….


I noticed the panel. Realized I could see his reflection. And then became aware that he was looking at me. Instantly and completely, I fell in love. Why we fall in love is often a mystery…..











I can certainly see that. I have done that once before. I was about 12 and was at the YMCA during my summer. There was a boy there by the name of “Dre” his nickname I never knew his real name but we were playing softball and he was in the outfield with me. I turned and looked at him. He was about my height, light-skinned, curly black hair and had he clearest skin for a boy that I had ever seen. All I knew was that I was suddenly in love. So crazy……

Now back to the story. Years later she went back to Paris for work. Every night after work she would gather with her client and friends for drinks. One of the people that she would gather with was a filmmaker by the name of Jacques who spoke excellent English and had dirty blond hair, dark blue eyes and always wore a motorcycle jacket, black scarf, white T-shirt and black jeans. When he drank he only ordered champagne.

Jacques took her around the city to see many different things….. “After descending the broken steps, we walked through an archway into another world. A wilderness. The sounds of traffic from the Champs-Elysees were gone, magically replaced by bird calls and splashing water. Maples, lilacs, bamboo, vines heavy with wisteria, perfumed the air with a heady sweet, peppery scent. We were lost in green. Awash in nature. There in the middle of Pairs we’d found an overgrown garden, magnificent in it’s obsolescence.”




“Orange and lemon trees scented the air. A bird whistled. The stream rushed by. We wandered on the twisting path.”

“We ate the crusty bread, soft cheese, and ripe fruit and drank the champagne. As we sat and looked out at the Seine, clouds rolled across the sky and a storm blew in. When the rain came, we huddled beneath a broad chestnut tree, the water releasing the leaves’ sweet smell. We watched the swans swim by, as untroubled by the rain as we were. 

“They mate for life”, Jacques said. For a moment, I thought he was going to kiss me, and I wondered if I’d taste the wine on his lips……..





Does she end up with Jacques? Well you’ll have to find out yourself. I just wanted to share more from this book. It was a really good read and I did enjoy it. The last story that I enjoyed was “Paris Alone” by Maggie Shipstead. She talked about her days in Paris alone and I really enjoyed her story. I could see myself doing the same thing.

Here is a small snippet from her story…. “Days spent along aren’t filtered through anyone else’s moods or subject to another’s whims or preferences; likewise, I don’t have to manage or compromise my own mods or whims, because they don’t affect anyone but me…. (agree!)


“One rainy afternoon, I sat in the Musee de l’Orangerie with no one else around, a private vista of Monet’s water lilies wrapped around me.” 

Water lilies by Claude Monet at the Musée de l’Orangerie in Paris.


Just beautiful, I hoped you enjoyed this post and check out the book. To read part one of my post see here.
(photos via Pinterest)