A Snippet from Teatime Discipleship

 

 

Good Morning All,

I feel a little better. I was able to sleep in on Sunday. I decided to stay home and rest a little, do a few house chores, and try to get some things done. While I was vacuuming my bedroom and thought came into my head. “I am in a different stage in life. I no longer want to take my weekends and just clean my house. From now on, since we are not going to have children around, I will do daily house scans and just add whatever needs to be cleaned to my list.” After that thought passed thru my mind, I had a sense of peace come over me. 

It’s interesting…. being in this different stage of life. A new chapter is beginning for me, and I am trying to navigate it as best as I can. In the mornings I love having my devotional. I have been reading Teatime Discipleship and it helps me start the day with my mind in the right place. 

I loved Sally Clarkson, the author, tips on discouragement. She provided a wonderful list to keep in your mind. 

 

photo credit: Mrs. Shockley 

 

  • God is with me, and He will help me succeed.  Each of us experiences “winter” seasons in our lives- times when growth is stagnant, when our dreams appear to be dead and buried. But while we can hardly perceive at the time, roots are growing deep in these seasons.

 

  • There are always do-overs in God’s economy. All of us mess up. Peter blew it royally when he denied Christ at His hour of need, but before he even sinned, Jesus told Peter He had prayed for him. Jesus had compassion on Peter before His disciple had even committed his sinful act. 

 

  • A wise woman learns her limitations. Sometimes women go so long without taking a break that they start breaking down. Wise women learn to say no so they don’t live in a constant state of exhaustion. 

 

  • I can seek outside perspective. You might need some inspiration and counsel in order to move forward. Find someone older, wiser and more experienced to help you come up with a plan. Sometimes this is easier said than done! But I have found that when I summon the courage to pour out my heart to more mature believers, I usually find compassion and often find help. (When my anxious thoughts multiply within me, Your comfort delights my soul. ~ Psalm 94:19) 

 

  • I can pace myself. If you’re feeling overwhelmed at the tasks ahead, ask yourself what’s stealing your peace of mind. Commit to identifying the stressors and drainers over which you have control and, as much as possible, eliminate them. Be honest about what needs to go and vigilant about removing it from your life. 

 

  • I can give the day to God. First things first! Beginning the day with the Lord will orient you. Set yourself on the right path for the hours head, with God’s truth and wisdom casting light over your priorities and plans. 

I hope you all enjoyed this snippet from Teatime Discipleship. This book also has great teatime recipes and ideas for fellowship with friends. Things have been so crazy in the world. I try to ground myself in the mornings as much as possible. 

“The path of the righteous is like the light of dawn. That shines brighter and brighter until the full day.” ~ Proverbs 4:18

 

(tips from Sally Clarkson, Teatime Discipleship, pgs. 99-105) 

4 replies
  1. Mya
    Mya says:

    Hello Mrs.Shockley,

    I have read Sally’s new book and I agree, it is wonderful. She provides so much wisdom that she has learned herself over the years. When I was reading, I couldn’t wait to get to the next page. She has a book coming out about tea time discipleship with your daughter. Glad you were able to rest and come up with a new plan for cleaning your home. Jennifer did a vodcast on changing plans/the way we do things. You both have inspired me to look at my life to see what is not working and making an action plan to change. It would be great if someday you could share how your new cleaning routine is going.

    Take care,

    Mya

    • mrs.sshockley
      mrs.sshockley says:

      You have finished the book already? Bravo! I am still working my way through in the morning as a part of my devotional time.
      I believe her vodcast came at a perfect time. I think as our lives change and with so many things going on, we have to take the time to pull back and look to see what is working. I will tell you this I enjoyed my weekend much more this past weekend not having a bunch of unnecessary house chores to do. What I have learned is that our house stays cleaner so much longer now that our boys have moved out and our boxers have passed away. I didn’t realize how they made the house so much more difficult to keep clean.

  2. Ms. Tracey
    Ms. Tracey says:

    I really like that part about pacing yourself. Sounds like a good book. I might have to check that out💕

    • mrs.sshockley
      mrs.sshockley says:

      I think that we all need this reminder. We get so caught up in so many things and honestly they are things that can wait. I am trying to learn to adjust my schedule accordingly.

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