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A Sunday Lunch…

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My family and I try to visit new places when dining. It is always hard to get out of a rut. We can be very routine with restaurants because we get to know the staff and usually order the same dishes.

My friend Kim suggested this place. We were a little apprehensive but in the end it turned out very well…..

This restaurant is called the Kopper Kettle Inn. The waitress gave us a brief history of the place. She said that it was a tavern, then a bed and breakfast, then they turned it into a restaurant. It has been a restaurant for over 95 years! 
This place was also a part of the Underground Railroad. Very interesting….
I loved all the vintage rugs and antique furniture. 

The light fixtures and murals were beautiful.
After oooing and aweing at everything we sat down to order. 
We sat down to vintage plates! Wonderful!

We had homemade chicken noodle soup, salad and dinner rolls.
Of course the main dish was the fried chicken which was delish!!

There were lots of sides and everything was family style which forced you to pass dishes 
around and talk. No cell phones please! (I tried to hurry and take quick photos)
After the wonderful dinner we went and toured the upstairs that was full of antique furniture. 

Then outside to the gardens….

It was quite lovely and it was nice to dine somewhere different. It was about a 25 minute drive for us but we enjoyed seeing all the farms, land and yards and yards of peonies! It was quite enjoyable. 


(photos by Mrs. Shockley & Lauren Shockley) 

My Visit to Ann Taylor

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Now Ann Taylor is one of my fav stores! Especially when it is 40% off time! Great prices and wonderful chic pieces that you will have for a long time.

Their stores are always pretty!





Oh my so chic…..




I always love all the cream and white they have. 




My favorite part of the store. The clearance section! Ahhh home….




Okay, I could not help it. This bracelet was too chic to leave. I had to purchase it. 
This is called the tropical cuff bracelet.


It is outstanding and will be timeless. 
I hope you enjoyed this quick little tour and consider looking into Ann Taylor. Their collections never disappoint. 

(photos via Mrs. Shockley)

Beauty Everyday….

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I try to spend every day of my life enjoying beauty everyday. Sometimes I get sly remarks from family, friends or co-workers but I try to press on.



My photo of peonies



I will never understand why beauty bothers some people. I wear dresses or skirts every day and it bothers some people. I don’t understand. I have had some women try to stop me from wearing them. They make remarks like, ” you know I know some stores that sell great pants, or ” doesn’t it bother you to wear skirts every day?” 


I chuckle on the inside because I can see right through it. So I tell them, “Thank you for the suggestion but no, I love skirts and dresses and will continue to wear them. Some women move right along but others well…. they still try. Yet I still continue to enjoy the beauty of skirts every day….

Me at my piano weekly piano lesson

I love pretty dishes and cups and use them every day. I have had some remarks about that too. I have china at work also. I use a pretty teacup for my hot water, lemon and honey every day and I use an antique blue and white plate for my breakfast pastry every day. 




I think some people are afraid of beauty because they have been in darkness for so long that the “light” of beauty frightens them. But not me I run toward it. Whenever I see beauty when I am out I take photos. This photo below is of a cupboard filled with blue and white ginger jars. It is at my favorite retail store called Von Maur. 

And this is near the lady’s bathroom. Great right?
My peonies at home

I have beauty in every corner of my home. Fresh flowers are everywhere if the budget allows it. 
My garden in front of my house.




I have beauty outside of my home. I love sitting on my porch with my family watching the hummingbirds eat from our feeders and smelling the flowers. 

Whatever “your beauty” is enjoy it. Don’t let people try to talk you out of what is not their own. If you enjoy wearing skirts or dresses every day continue if you use china at work continue, if you enjoy flowers continue if you love blue and white continue, if you worship God, continue. 

Photo by Annie Spratt on Unsplash
My obsession with french chateaus…




For those of us that love beauty and share it. Let us continue.




 

This is a wonderful video that I found recently about blogger Mimi Thorrison. This is a wonderful video of how to enjoy beauty every day. She has flowers around and her recipes look simple and delicious. The language is not in English but I do hope that you enjoy it. I know I did!








Chic for the Interview

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So I know that we are all fans of Pinterest. I know I am! I love all the inspiration and ideas that come from it! It’s wonderful! I did see this pin recently from Career Contessa and I thought I would share it.

I talked about Career Contessa on my blog in 2014, see the post here. It is a wonderful website for career-driven women and has wonderful resources.

The pin that I saw was called, “Everything You Need to Bring to an Interview“. The list gives you great advice on what to pack in your bag the day of the interview.

1) Pen and Paper
Because taking notes with your phone is unacceptable.


2) Copies of Your Resume
10 copies to be exact. Better too many than not enough


















3) A copy of your Cover Letter
Just in case you are asked about something you included


4) Comfortable Shoes
Flats in the purse just in case, never a bad thing


5) A mirror
You’ll want to quickly check for lipstick on your teeth. We promise….



6) Spare pair of tights
If your wearing tights, they WILL get a run in them.



7) An Ipad
So you can show examples of your work (printed portfolios are archaic)



Photo by Emma Matthews Digital Content Production on Unsplash




8) A Cheat~sheet
To get you back on track when you are at loss for words


9) Business cards
They’re great for handing out to additional people you may meet



10) Printed questions
It’s crucial to ask good questions at the interview. Have a hard copy.



11) A Thank You Note
Give out handwritten notes in-person, then follow- up with a more detailed note via email. 




Honestly, these are some great tips and I love the idea of writing a thank you letter to the interviewers after the meeting. I have done that before. It is wonderful! I hope these tips help you along the way!

















Beauty in Waiting….

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I was inspired to write the post after reading Shannon Ables blog post Give it Time: Discovering What is Worth the Wait. It was such an inspiring post. Shannon gave a wonderful list of things she was willing to wait for. So I decided to think to myself and come up with a list of things that I know will be worth the wait for me….

My peony bouquet from last year 

1) The peony season, I look forward to this every year! I have already picked up my first bunch from my florist this month!

You can never have too many….
2) Finding blue and white for my home….
3) A 10-day trip to Italy with my family….
4) My husband eating vegetables. I know it is wishful thinking but I am hopeful….
5) A collection of clothes, shoes & hand bags that are timeless….
6) A home beautifully decorated over time….

My blue and white at home



My flowers at home
I love the flower hanging on the wall if anyone knows where I can find this please leave the info in the comments section!
6) Trusting God with my enemies…..
7) My weight loss….
8) My backyard…. I have a list of things that we are going to do. 
9) Putting money into retirement….
10)  Personal growth: I have a list of mental and emotional goals that I am looking forward to reaching… 
11) Obtaining my Bachelor’s Degree in English…..
12) Becoming a paralegal supervisor for my division….
Scales of Justice Necklace
13) Enjoying my golden years with my husband….
This list could go on and on but I will stop here with my list of goals and dreams that will be worth waiting for. As the Bible tells us “everything is beautiful in it’s time”. And I am telling you it is very true. Enjoy your weekend!
(photos via Pinterest & Mrs. Shockley)

Art in Indy

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Last year I shared a post about the Stutz Art Show that we attended. We decided to attend it again with our kids and we always enjoy it. (see last year’s post here)

They had more classic cars and more bands playing music everywhere. Some of the same artists were there but then again there were a few new faces.

We had a good time. I did not take any photos this year. I learned that some of the artists do not like it. So I wanted to respect their work and just enjoy it. I did however take photos of some of the floral arrangements that were there.

Beautiful, beautiful simply beautiful!
Okay, I did manage to sneak in one piece but that was all. So pretty…..
Okay, this was my favorite thing in the whole show. This artist brought in some fresh lilac from her garden at home. She was really nice and very pleasant. Love the blue and white plate of course!
I hope you take advantage of whatever art shows or galleries you have in your city. Like Jennifer L. Scott would say, “continue to seek the arts”.
(photos via Mrs. Shockley)

Picnic Ideas

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Summer is upon us and this year and I wanted to do at least one thing. I want to have a picnic! I have not had a picnic since I was in high school and I loved them! So this year I have it on my calendar to plan a picnic for me and my family. Here are some of my ideas….




























1) A nice blanket and some pillows




2) Of course I want lots of fresh fruit and sandwiches



3) I think some french bread would be nice to nibble on with some gourmet cheese. 

Photo by Alexandra K on Unsplash
Beautiful spread

4) Oh and of course I can not forget the candles! 





Photo by Julia Kicova on Unsplash



I am looking forward to this and I know my family will enjoy it! Oh and I can not forget the wine. It will be nice to have a glass with my husband while the kids walk around. I am really looking forward to this!



photo credit Daiga Ellaby



I am hoping that some flowers will be around while we are enjoying each other’s company. 



I hope that you enjoyed this post and are inspired to have your very own picnic!