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What is “Hostingcore”?

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Well hello September!

My favorite month of the year! Not because it is my birthday month but because of all of the wonderful things that come with it. September always whispers autumn to me. I am trying my best not to rush this season but to actually pay attention to the days ahead. It is so hard with busy schedules, and work but I really want to make an effort. When our daughter was home for the summer, I was talking about something, and I can’t remember what it was. She then said, “be present”. Which of course is my phrase of the year. Being in this new season of life is requiring a lot of that. 

I hope everyone had a wonderful 3- day weekend. Goodness those go by so fast. I always want to get a lot done but I actually ended up watching the first Downtown Abbey movie from 2019. I really enjoyed it. Now I have not watched the series, but I intend on watching the movies. Looking at all of the decor and clothes always puts a smile on my face. Which made me think of a recent trend that I stumbled on months ago. Have any of you heard of “hostingcore”? 

 

 

My sitting room 

 

 

 

An article by Kate Lickert from Veranda Magazine described it as follows:

“With looming financial uncertainties and a growing desire to foster deeper connections, we’re entering a new era of entertaining at home. One of TikTok’s latest trends, hostingcore, embodies this design and lifestyle movement by encouraging you to transform every corner of your home into an open invitation. It’s not about hosting flawless soirées (who has the time or patience for that?). Instead, it’s about curating a space so warm and considered that guests feel at ease the moment they step inside.” 

Okay, now I like the sound of that and honestly try to embody that every time we have guests. I think the older I get the less fuss that I want in my life. 

 

My Thanksgiving tablescape from 2024

 

 

The article goes on to say:

“The hostingcore trend is casual in nature, but still inspires you to romanticize your gatherings (think: the kitchens and parties in Nancy Meyers movies). For example, the “good dishes” are meant for everyday use, the playlist is always queued up, and there’s always a chilled bottle of wine in the fridge. Hostingcore isn’t about being the perfect host; it’s about creating a thoughtful atmosphere and turning everyday moments into special occasions.” 

I would add that hostingcore is not only about preparing for these events but about everyday life. If you live this way with these items, then it’s no longer hostingcore but you will be living beautifully at your core. I think most of us who are in this space try to live this way every day. I love that this trend is happening and of course hope that it continues. If you want read the rest of the list click here. I also have a few elegant items on my Amazon list. You can shop it here. 

Have a great week!

 

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August Favorites ~ 2025

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Oh come on cooler weather! I really want cooler temperatures. This past weekend I was doing a few chores and felt myself sweat a little. I am trying not to rush the season, but it is so hard when you are burning up! I hope everyone is doing well. My husband and I went to another new restaurant for us. It was called Traders Point Creamery. The scenery was beautiful, and it was a very quiet and delicious dinner. I will share it on Instagram soon. Okay, now time for the most popular post on my blog, my monthly favorites!

 

 

I went antiquing recently in Franklin, Indiana and found a few beautiful items. I shared this on Instagram recently. The first is this large but outstanding bust that I found! I went down on a Saturday to shop then that evening I began to stew about this large bust that I saw. I could not resist. I had to go back and get her. Do you blame me? I found her at Fren Chic. 

 

photo credits: Mrs. Shockley

 

I also purchased these vintage replica pearl clip earrings from 1992 from Fren Chic. Then I popped on over to the Salvage Sisters which was down the street. As soon as I walked in, I saw this beautiful vintage chinoiserie table. They only wanted about $30 for it. I have placed it in my office and will use it around the house for whatever task I need. Then I walked around and saw this stunning red toile teapot. Pictured below. 

 

 

This cost me around $70. I was not happy about the price, but the size and color were marvelous, and I simply could not leave it there. I just couldn’t. Next up are my splendid Ralph Lauren Adrienne Wingtip pumps. These are practically sold out everywhere! I tried these on while in Orlando in June, but they were the higher heels, and I wanted a kitten heel. I found a pair at Macy’s, but I think Dillard’s is the last store to have the kitten heel version. I saw Lydia Millen trying on a pair in a recent video and I thought, oh well I am on trend! 

 

 

 

Next up is my new Estate Planner from Nikki Boyd. I also shared a reel of this on my Instagram. I cannot express how beautifully done this book is. I have always wanted a binder of some sort that explains in detail my wishes and provides my daughter everything she may need to plan my affairs. Get this as a gift for a loved one to begin that difficult conversation because trust me you should. After going through and dealing with my father’s affairs…. I just can’t express enough how important it is. 

Then my monthly dinners with my girlfriends is everything! Earlier this month we went to a Turkish restaurant here in my city and it was so delicious. I think I am in love with the appetizer tray. It had Hummus, Tabouli, Babaganush, Eggplant Salsa, Dolma and Ezme. It was a dream and so good! 

 

 

 

Flowers are still a monthly favorite of mine. Although I have not had a good selection in my stores lately this gorgeous bouquet of white garden roses came from Trader Joes. It was so needed and enjoyed in my bedroom! 

Then my team and I decided to have lunch at the small Cake Bake Shop in Broad Ripple. We all enjoyed it and had a wonderful time. I have not been to this location in years. Love the Eiffel Tower Ferris wheel in the window. 

 

 

 

Then lastly, I found a chinoiserie scarf from Amazon. I had to share it. It’s very elegant and the colors are perfect for the upcoming autumn season. Well farewell to August and happy September to everyone! I love September! The weather is perfect; it’s my birthday month and well it’s just a great time of the year. Have a great week!

 

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Senses & Sensibility ~ At Home

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Hello Friends,

Is anyone tired of the heat? I know I am! There have been several days recently where I wanted to sit out on my porch with a book and dessert but could not because it was way too humid! I have been so sad this summer season. I have not had one flower in my greenhouse. It has just been so unbearable in it. But I am hoping to have some help soon. I just finished the summer session on my Land Gardeners Create Academy lesson. I love it!

Well, we are about to close on August, and I am gathering my August favorites for next week’s post. But in the meantime, I hope you all enjoy this little snippet from Gracious Home- Cultivating a Spirit of Welcome from Victoria Magazine. 

This list comes from the lovely author Melissa Lester from Victoria Magazine.

Heighten feelings of serenity by looking beyond the aesthetics of your interiors to consider the entire sensory experience of being in your home.

  • Take a few minutes at the end of each day to tidy your surroundings so that you will awake to a welcoming environment. When time does not allow for following through on this suggestion fully, consider the one area that is most important to your sense of well-being and focus your efforts there.
  • Whatever your favorite genre, set a tranquil mood with soft strains of music. Slow and simple melodies with gentle harmonies promote relaxation.

 

 

Screenshot- via Pinterest (Aerin Lauder Dressing Room) 

  • Open your windows during a spring shower not only to reduce humidity and ventilate your home but also to savor the gentle pitter-patter of raindrops, along with the delightfully earthy odor know as petrichor. 
  • To infuse your home with a fragrance known for calming properties, turn to lavender, chamomile, or vanilla.
  • Stash a variety of soft blankets in different weights near conversation areas. 
  • Lend a sweet floral essence to clothing by tucking sachets brimming with potpourri into drawers and closets. 
  • Fill a pretty bowl with fresh seasonal produce. A bushel of apples adds autumnal color to the kitchen while encouraging a wholesome snack. 

 

Photo via Pinterest 

 

 

  • As it circulates the air, let an oscillating fan lull you to sleep with the relaxing sounds of summers past. 
  • In a glass atomizer, craft a signature fragrance by diluting a few drops of essential oil and a pinch of Epsom salts in distilled water. Spritzing pillows and bedding with the aromatic spray may inspire dreams of the garden. 
  • If you have a fireplace, set a table before the hearth for the coziest wintertime dinners. 
  • Add moisture to the air by simmering redolent ingredients in water or apple juice and refreshing the liquid, as needed, throughout the day. Consider citrus slices, fresh herbs, and spices for the medley. 
  • Savor the sensory of experience of making a pot of coffee- listening to the percolate, inhaling the brew’s slightly nutty aroma, taking that first bracing sip, and tasting its fresh roasted flavor. 

 

 

Photo credit via: L. Shockley 

 

 

A few of these I already do. I hope these provide some inspiration to add a little beauty to your everyday lives. Don’t be afraid to add a few things. Sometimes I think we get in our own way. Step aside and try at least one of these and let me know in the comments section below. I also have some new elegant Amazon finds on my favorites page.  Have a great week! 

 

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Antiquing in Florida

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Hello Friends,

I am back from my work trip to South Carolina, and I really enjoyed myself. I went to a presentation skills class, and it was a great experience. I love being around people who are better than me. I find it to be so inspiring! There is so much that you can glean from someone who is better than you in something. You should not consider them to be an enemy but a teacher. Especially if that person is kind. If they are not, then that’s a different story. There were some great presenters as this training, and I am already looking forward to the next. This course helped us to focus on presenting in front of an audience, instruct classes, lead our teams, and put together PowerPoint presentations. I have already asked to be included as a facilitator in the next courses. I love being in this part of my life. I feel like I can finally participate in things and take risks.

Well let’s finish up my Florida adventures. I did find some boutiques to visit and antique stores. I have to have at least one antique store to visit while I am out of town. It is a must! 

 

photo credit: Mrs. Shockley

 

The first antique store that I visited was called the Antique Center on Alden Road. They don’t have a website so I could not link it, but it was the most beautifully curated store that I have ever seen in Florida! 

 

 

I had to stop and look at every corner and every detail. It was lovely and the owner was so kind. I wanted everything in the store. It was so good, and the items were such good quality. The prices were a bit high, but you can tell that this store carried quality items. 

 

 

I circled the store three times. I wanted to make sure that I did not miss anything. The owner did come from around the counter to talk with me. He took me to a space in the back where they had new inventory to price and place inside the store. He showed me this china set. I fell in LOVE with it! It was not priced yet and he had just purchased it from an estate sale from a widow who had recently passed way. Her home was worth $12 million dollars! This was one of her china teacup sets. It was from Tiffany & Company and was called the Audubon Limoges. I quickly looked it up and found this! So beautiful but so expensive! 

 

 

 

I purchased a vintage brooch from this store. When I left noticed that this little area had a few shops around it to visit. The next store that I went to was called Bamboo & Foo. It was a really pretty store. Lots of color and beautiful antiques as well. There was a nice couple there assisting and helping out. I purchased some vintage tassels for my ginger jars in my room.

 

 

Once I left that area, I found a clothing boutique store called The Primrose. It was a cute little boutique that sold clothing, baby items and home decor. I purchased this blue and white clutch from there. 

I had a nice “mom day” shopping around and looking at antiques. I needed a day away from the park. It was just too much for me. It’s amazing. We went to Florida in June, and it is August already. Goodness time is just flying by. Have a great week! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

July Favorites ~ 2025

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Hi There,

I am trying to get my blog posts out and newsletter as soon as possible. I am going to be flying out here soon for a work trip and I am trying to work ahead. My new Mahjong set has arrived! FINALLY! I will be sharing photos soon but let’s get into my favorites for the month of July.

 

photo credits: Mrs. Shockley 

 

Now first on my list was very hard to get! I watched Meghan’s series on Netflix and loved it! Then I learned about her new business called As Ever by Meghan.  Her first launch of her products sold out in hours. I then signed up to make sure that I could get at least one tin of tea and I did! I managed to order some of her herbal lemon ginger tea. It tastes wonderful and the smell is incredible, and I am not just saying that. I don’t know if they will be relaunching a third batch, but I would recommend that you sign up to get updates. I really want a jar of her raspberry spread. We’ll see. 

 

 

Next is my dinner with girls this month. We went to a new restaurant called Aberdeen Social House and it was delicious! I got the short rib in miso soup and dumplings. So good! Then I got invited as an influencer to the Garden Soiree hosted by the Villages. It was such a great opportunity, and I was so grateful for the invite. I had never heard of this organization, but they work with foster families assisting them with adoptions and providing support. It was a wonderful cause!

 

 

Ohh I have been after a foaming soap dispenser for a while now and I found this on Amazon! I love the blue and white design and gold hardware. I love foaming soaps from Bath and Body Works, but I don’t always love the bottle. This is perfect. I can just pour the soap in the dispenser and still get the foaming effective. 

Fifth are my new Chanel earrings and necklace. I purchased these from the Chanel party that I attended by one of our Guild members. We had so much fun trying on jewelry, eating, and talking. 

 

 

OMG! I love my chair. Do you all remember this chair? I purchased it from FBMP for only $50 and have been waiting to get it reupholstered. The before photo is the striped fabric that was faded and old and the new fabric is a dream. I love this chintz fabric in blue. I went right to it when I went into the fabric store, and I had the same gentleman work on it for me. I have gotten so many compliments on it.  

 

 

No! I have been in denial myself. I am in my reading glasses era, and it sucks! Sorry but it does. I noticed last year that we went out to dinner I would pull the menu away from my face. OMG! I then went to see my eye doctor and she said, yeah you need reading glasses.” I said but I wear contacts. She said that doesn’t matter anymore. NOOOO! So I went ahead and ordered these from Amazon. I have to say that are really, affordable and work.  I have a pair at home, work, and my purse. 

 

 

I know that I mentioned that I had a consultant come from California Closets to look at my walk-in closet and come up with a design. This is what she came up with. I am so happy with the design and use of my space. I really need this and hope to get this installed soon!

 

Last on my list is my Zoltar fortune. Have any of you ever did this? It was at Universal, and I decided to try it. It was very interesting. This is what Zoltar told me….

You are a strong believer in fate. You feel that you have no control over your destiny. Fortunately, you are destined to be very happy indeed. You’ve had some trouble mostly caused by the inconsideration of others. But fate will be kind to you, and you can expect your life to run on a smoother pattern. You have a neat and tidy nature and can’t tolerate slovenliness around you. Since you demand this of yourself and others you will always live in a tidy atmosphere. 

Interesting right? Now I don’t get into tarot cards or horoscopes, but I found this very interesting. 

I hope you all enjoyed my favorites for the month of July. Check your mailboxes and spam boxes for my monthly newsletters. I will be sharing my antique shopping from Orlando when I return. 

 

 

 

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Visiting the Cake Bake Shop in Disney

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Good Morning Friends,

We have had a busy weekend. I had to get a new nail tech. My nail tech quit about 2 weeks ago, so it has not been easy trying to find a new place. I am trying a new location so we will see how it goes. My husband had surgery on Monday! He had to have some bone spurs removed from both of his elbows and the surgery went well. We are in the healing process now and hope that the pain will began to subside soon. 

I am trying to get caught up or work ahead on my blog posts. I have a work trip coming up here soon and will be gone for a week. I always like to make sure that I get my content ready to go. It helps me feel better. I started a new LinkedIn account for my business. It does not look like there is much going on, but I am getting a lot of views and impressions already! Yay! My friend and business mentor mentioned to me that I should start one so we will see how this goes. 

I feel like I am behind on sharing things in my life but that is okay. I am learning to pace myself with all of the things that I have going on. I did film a video for YouTube and I hope to get that published soon. Now without further ado let’s see my visit to the Cake Bake Shop at the Disney Boardwalk. 

 

 

 

photo credits: Mrs. Shockley 

 

I honestly expected nothing but the best from Gwendolyn. This location was just as beautiful as the other two. It did feel a little grander, but the beautiful details were there. The location is on a lovely boardwalk right off of the water. I bet this is so beautiful at night. As soon as you walk in you immediately look everywhere including up. All of the crystal and florals are tucked into every little location. 

 

 

We checked in the restaurant then we went to look around in the bakery. This is walking into the bakery. There is also a gift shop which is where I found the swan cup for my pens. There were so many items to look at. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Once we finished shopping at the bakery and the gift shop, they called our name, and we got to go into the restaurant. Walking in and seeing the gorgeous carousel table area was a real treat! I loved the design and all of the florals. 

 

 

In the carousel was a table for about 8 people. Now wouldn’t this be a lovely place to celebrate a birthday with some friends? I just can’t get over her chandeliers. I believe she designed those too. 

 

photo credits: Mrs. Shockley 

 

For lunch I got the chicken salad sandwich on a croissant with truffle fries. It was so good! My husband got truffle fries as well and a slider. For cake I got the red velvet cake. While eating I had to look around and noticed the ceiling. Looks like a work of art almost. STUNNING! 

 

 

 

This location had so many different areas of where you can dine, have a drink or cup of tea. The place was so pretty, and I am still in love with this paint color.

 

 

 

 

I told my husband that I had to get a photo standing under the chandelier and florals.  It looks like a dream! I had a wonderful time at this location and was so happy that we got to make time to go. I was not sure if I was going to be able to come because it was about 20 minutes from Universal and I did not want to leave the girls at the park by themselves but then I realized they were doing their own thing and was not thinking about me! 

 

 

 

We had a really great time, and it felt good to get away from Universal. It was so hot and being able to do something “elegant” helped me to dive back into the park once I had a day to take a break. I will be sharing my antique shopping while I was there and stores that I found. Above is my swan cup that I purchased while I was there. I got two. I needed one for both offices, right? They both look so charming in my offices. It a delight using them and seeing them in my spaces. Remember live with beautiful things. 

 

 

I hope you all enjoyed this post and found the Cake Bake Shop to be as beautiful as usual. I had a wonderful time there and hope to visit it again sometime in the near future. The boutique still has some beautiful pieces left to purchase. The photo above is how I styled Patricia. She is wearing the Lux Cardigan Brooch, Pearls and Chinoiserie scarf. She looks like lovely. All of the pieces are on sale. Enjoy! 

 

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A Bathroom Decor Refresh

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Good Morning Friends,

I hope everyone had a wonderful July 4th weekend! We just grilled and hung out with the kiddos. I did go to the fabric store to pick up some new fabric for my cane chair that I purchased on FBMP in March of 2024.  I hope to be dropping it off soon with the reupholster. I always look forward to his transformations when it comes to my furniture pieces and fabrics.  I am trying to plan a day to just stay home. I really need some “stay at home days”. I want to relax and get some things done around my home. I also just want to hang out alone and try to recharge.

I do have some exciting events this week. On Friday, I have a consultation with an organizing specialist from California Closets!  She will be coming by the house to look at my closet and hopefully the laundry room. I want to see what designs she can come up with to reconfigure my closet and laundry. 

I also have an influencer event. I will be sharing that next week. For the past few weeks, I have been working on a simple decor refresh for my master bathroom. I was inspired by my friend Nicole Blair’s bathroom revamp that she did for a client of hers in May. 

 

photos via: Nicole Blair Instagram 

 

Here are some screenshots of the bathroom refresh that Nicole did. I was so inspired by the wall of beautiful florals and art. I loved the small chandelier that she added in the space. I think it added the right about of elegance and luxury. This space for was an elderly woman and I tell you something changes in you when you update your spaces.

 

 

This was a screenshot of the video that Nicole posted. I fell in love with floral valances that she added to the window. I loved them so much that I went on the hunt and tried to find something similar. 

 

photo credits: Mrs. Shockley 

 

Sorry I could not get a better photo of my new valances, but I found this blue and white chinoiserie inspired set on Amazon. They look so good in my bathroom. I originally had this green set of curtains up. They have been there since we moved in. I have tried multiple curtains for this space, but nothing seemed to work. It is exciting to have a curtain refresh after 12 years. The photo on the left is the first set of pictures that I purchased. I started building my wall of art in May. In this spot I had a giant print of a flower. I had that print for almost 20 years. I found these at HomeGoods but Amazon had a few here, here and here. 

 

 

 

As the weeks went by every time I went to HomeGoods or T.J. Maxx I would check their picture area and see if any new goodies appeared and I found vintage inspired photos and frames bit by bit. It was a process for sure. I wanted to make sure that each photo fit the section and blended well with the other photos. I added this starburst mirror in the middle. I bought that over 10 years ago and it has just been sitting in my decor bin. The landscape photo at the bottom was a T.J. Maxx find from a female artist. 

I then thought that a wall plate was needed so I search Etsy for one and found the blue and white platter for only $44! I found a small blue and white ginger jar at HomeGoods. The area was slowly coming together. 

 

 

 

 

Here is the final look. I may change the pink vintage photo. I do like how it ties in with the pink rose photo in the middle. I will be sharing a reel on my Instagram page if you want to take a peek. Honestly, I am glad that I did this. I needed a refresh in this bathroom. I thought about changing the wall color but I don’t know what I want yet so we will see. 

I hope this has provided some inspiration to all of you. Keep in mind it does not take much to add beauty to your life. It can come in small doses like this. Enjoy your week!

 

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