Principles of Gracious Living ~ Authenticity
by Alexandra Stoddard
by Alexandra Stoddard
I jump on Amazon from time to time to check out new books. I have always been quite fascinated with how the French live. (see my blog entry here about how I am inspired)
I recently saw this book called ” French Women Don’t Get Fat”. So I took a “peek” inside and found this great list called “Cooking is”. I think that it reminds us of how important home-cooked meals are and how to enjoy our lives. I had to share this list….
~ Cooking is an act of love, for sure, as those of us who’ve cooked all our lives know that to spoil others is a great source of pleasure, even though for some who cook dinner every night it may sometimes seem like a chore.
~ Cooking is self-expression, a way of finding the aromas, colors, and flavors that define your personality.
~ Cooking is contemplative experience reaching and probing deep in our thoughts and emotions.
~ Cooking is memory, as it links to a person’s culture and values. Whenever we eat something, the taste and memory of all the times we have eaten that dish live in the present.
~ Cooking is seduction, from creating the atmosphere and setting, to the giving of what is loved and shared, to the cumulative engagement of the senses and being.
My Mediterranean salmon
~ Cooking is relaxing, and focusing on your preparation can be a getaway from daily stress.
~ Cooking is good for the mind, good for mental health, using your hands to craft a delicious and complete finished dish or meal.
~ Cooking is conversation, as a meal gathers values, tastes, rituals, and words that are passed on for generations and play an extremely important social role not only over holiday seasons.
~ Cooking is reading from a recipe in a cookbook or on the Internet, thus absorption and learning.
Lately I have been on this “let’s find beautiful places around my city” kick” and it seems that people keep giving me information about new consignment stores, restaurants, home decor stores, just everything! And the funny thing is I have not announced this to anyone.
This information just keeps coming to me! It’s great and a little strange. I guess that James Allen quote that I heard years ago might have some truth in it. “You attract what you are”. So since I am searching for beautiful things they are finding their way to me.
One of my co-workers told me about this wonderful little place in Broad Ripple in Indianapolis. It is called the Cake Bake Shop. My husband and I decided to go there for lunch and it was a wonderful experience.
I loved every bit of it. See my gorgeous photos below…
“If we can attain satisfaction with what we have in our lives, it will bring us happiness and grace. In our present condition, if we’re able to solve our inner problems and affirm life, we will be in harmony with our expectations. In any situation, we can be appeased and self-contained, and gratify ourselves with realistic desires. Whenever we make the best of whatever situation we find ourselves in, we are essentially living a gracious life.”
~The Principles of a Gracious Life
by Alexandra Stoddard
I have shared on the blog how much I love to read! This summer I am reading two books. I always read two books at a time. It’s a habit I developed while I was in college. This summer I have decided to read Bella Tuscany: The Sweet Life in Italy by Frances Mayes and Thirty Chic Days; Practical Inspiration for a Beautiful Life by Fiona Ferris.
Isn’t this wonderful? Not to say that most of us don’t know these “social rules” anyway but it is a reminder to be private. I wrote about “Keeping an Air of Mystery” earlier this year.
Keeping mystery at home is a wonderful thing. I believe that there are certain things that your kids should not see you do. In the evening when I am getting dressed for bed, I shut our bedroom door. I do not want my daughter to see my naked body! I think that is terrible. I have some friends and family who don’t mind but that is their business, not mine.
Finding beautiful things is always fun! So I was really excited when I walked into the Charming Charlie store in the Florida Mall and found these two great accessories.
Goodness gracious it has been so hot here in Indiana! I know we shouldn’t complain because we have horrible winters here but I am sorry it’s hot!
I had a visit with my O.B. recently and I told her that I have been dizzy lately. Without blinking an eye she said, “You don’t drink enough water”. I just sighed. So I made a mental note to start working on that immediately.
My family and I were at the mall and went into Dick’s Sporting Goods. Not really my kinda of shopping but I have to honor my husband to. He always goes where I want. We were just looking around when I spotted the Fruit Fusion Water Bottle by Carrie Underwood.